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Consistency: The Only Thing Standing Between You and Complete Dog Anarchy

Traci Fulkerson, CVT

f you’ve ever wondered whether your dog is smarter than you, let me save you the trouble: They are. Not in a “solve world hunger” kind of way, but in an “I know exactly how to manipulate my human” kind of way.


If dogs had resumes, they’d list their top skills as:

✔ Selective hearing

✔ Mental loophole exploitation

✔ Supreme snack detection

✔ Manipulating humans with big, sad eyes


And the one thing standing between you and total dog-fueled chaos? Consistency.




Your Dog is a Tiny, Furry Lawyer (and You Keep Losing the Case)

Dogs love rules—especially finding ways around them. If you say, “No jumping”, and then let them jump when you’re wearing old jeans but scold them when you’re in work clothes, your dog isn’t learning not to jump. They’re learning that jumping is fine unless Mom is in fancy pants.


And once they find that loophole, they will exploit it mercilessly.


Same thing goes for getting on the couch. If you let them up just this once because they look extra cute and snuggly, congratulations! You’ve just signed away your couch rights forever. Your dog now considers that prime real estate, and you are merely a guest.

Don’t believe me? Try telling them to get down. They’ll blink at you, shift slightly, and pretend they’ve gone deaf.


Commands Are Not Optional—Even if They Pretend Not to Hear You

Ever tell your dog to “sit” and watch them just stand there, wagging their tail, like you’re speaking an unknown dialect? So you repeat yourself. And again. And then maybe throw in a desperate “pleeease?”


Guess what? You just trained your dog to ignore you until the fifth or sixth command.

Dogs are brilliant at figuring out how much effort they actually need to put into things. If they realize that “sit” only requires action after the fourth repetition, that’s exactly what they’ll do.


They’re not disobedient. They’re economical.


Food Begging: A One-Time Mistake That Lasts a Lifetime

Nothing tests your willpower like your dog watching you eat. The eyes. The whimpering. The way they inch closer, as if drawn by some invisible gravitational force toward your plate.

So you break. Just once. Maybe you drop a fry on “accident.” Maybe you cave and let them have a little piece of your sandwich.


BOOM. You are now a certified snack dispenser.


From this moment forward, mealtime is no longer a peaceful experience. You will never eat alone again. Your dog will sit beside you at every meal, like a furry tax collector waiting for their portion.


And if you don’t fork over the goods? You’ll be subjected to:

  • Unrelenting eye contact

  • Excessive, dramatic sighing

  • Paw taps (aka gentle but firm reminders of your past generosity)

  • The infamous “boop-the-elbowmove, which is designed to make you drop food by force


This is your life now. Unless, of course, you commit to being consistent and never feeding them from your plate again.


Dogs Are Walking Pattern Recognition Machines

If dogs had a motto, it would be: If it worked once, it will work forever.

That means if:

  • Barking at the back door got them outside one time, they will now bark at every door forever.

  • Rolling over dramatically got them out of a bath once, they will flop onto their back the second they hear running water.

  • Fake limping got them extra cuddles one time, you now own a part-time method actor who will use their injury card whenever convenient.


You must be consistent, or your dog will turn into a four-legged loophole-finding machine.


Want to Win? Become a Predictable, Rule-Enforcing Robot

Dogs thrive on routine. They don’t care about fairness, emotions, or why you let them on the couch yesterday but not today. They care about patterns.

If you:

  • Never let them on the furniture, they won’t even try.

  • Never let them jump, they’ll stop launching themselves at houseguests.

  • Never let them beg, they’ll accept their food bowl as their sole meal source.


It’s that simple. Dogs follow rules, but only if you actually enforce them every single time.


Final Thoughts: Who’s Training Who?

Let’s be real—dogs don’t actually train that hard. They just wait for us to mess up, then exploit our inconsistency.


If you want a well-behaved dog, set clear rules and stick to them. Every. Single. Time.

If you don’t, well... enjoy sharing your couch, your meals, and your sanity with your new tiny, furry, rule-bending lawyer.


Stay strong. The battle for consistency is brutal, but the reward is sweet. (And maybe, just maybe, you’ll get your couch back.)

 
 
 

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